I would venture to say that most of don’t like being told we’re doing something that is contrary to what is healthy, in line with scripture, or destructive. We like feeling in control and are often reluctant to let go of behaviors that are comfortable. 

Today’s verse challenges that idea and adds another layer, when we aren’t willing to accept accountability and reproof we can lead others astray. Think about that for a moment. As representatives of Jesus Christ, we are sometimes the only example of Jesus people see. 

Having trusted people in our lives to hold us accountable is important because, despite our best efforts, we won’t always behave appropriately. However, that’s only part of the equation. The second part is we must be willing to listen to the counsel of those we trust rather than resisting or rejecting the guidance or reproof. 

Establishing a Godly accountability system is essential to our continued growth and to our ability to be effective witnesses of the gospel.